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Feature Article: Servant Leadership Lessons Jesus Modeled for our Leadership & our Lives

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Servant Leadership Lessons Jesus Modeled for our Leadership & our Lives

Many of you may be parents already, and some of you have the privilege of being grandparents! My husband and I are new parents - our son just turned four months old last week! Wow, the time is just flying by. A dear friend recently reminded me to enjoy this time with our son while he is young, as she had thought it would be so long before her children were in kindergarten, and now they've all graduated from college!

As we've adjusted to our new little one and the responsibilities he brings, I reflected on the servant leadership lessons associated with being a parent, and how Jesus modeled these lessons for us, and how the Lord daily models these lessons for us. As we seek to be conformed to the image of Christ, we can model our lives and leadership to his by the power of His Holy Spirit.

I've discovered there are three leadership principles characteristic of Jesus' leadership of us. You can incorporate these as leaders or as parents, or both, depending upon the spheres of influence to which God has called you. Let's look at these principles together to help you strive to lead as Jesus does in every area of your life.

  1. Our presence is most important.

    First, our presence as parents and leaders is most important. When Carter's upset or distressed, it's most important to him that "Mommy's here," or "Daddy's here." If we are there, he feels assured that we will bring him comfort, food, reassurance or whatever else he needs.

    Likewise, in our personal relationship with the Lord, we can always be assured of His presence, and particularly when we're in distress. One of my favorite passages is Psalm 34:18, which promises us that "the LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.

    Knowing we're "there" for those we lead, whether it's our family, our teams or those in your church, your presence is most important in building trust and reassurance into your leadership and your relationship.

  2. We're to be focused on providing for the needs of those entrusted to our care and on their best.

    As parents, my husband and I are to be focused on providing for the needs of our son and on what is best for him. He need not worry about where his next meal will come from, or if he'll have a roof over his little head to sleep at night. God, likewise, is focused on providing our needs, and promises in Matt. 6:25-34 to do so as we seek first His kingdom.

    As leaders, we're to focus on protecting and providing for the needs of those under our care, whether our physical family or our spiritual family. Some leaders are especially gifted in this way with a spiritual gift of pastor, which leads them to protect and provide for those spiritually under their care. This may include protecting them from wrong choices, and intervening in their lives, even when that intervention may be unwanted.

    However, often leaders are focused on getting their own needs met, rather than on meeting the needs of those they lead. A close family member is experiencing this in the workplace with a leader, and it's painful to hear illustrations of this particular self-serving leader's actions on an ongoing basis.

    Yet this is not a new problem. In the Old Testament when the nation of Israel asked for a human king rather than continuing to be lead directly by God as a theocracy, God warned Israel through the prophet, Samuel, in 1 Samuel 8:

  3. "This is what the king who will reign over you will do: He will take your sons and make them serve with his chariots and horses, and they will run in front of his chariots. Some he will assign to be commanders of thousands and commanders of fifties, and others to plow his ground and reap his harvest, and still others to make weapons of war and equipment for his chariots.He will take your daughters to be perfumers and cooks and bakers. He will take the best of your fields and vineyards and olive groves and give them to his attendants. He will take a tenth of your grain and of your vintage and give it to his officials and attendants. Your menservants and maidservants and the best of your cattle and donkeys he will take for his own use. He will take a tenth of your flocks, and you yourselves will become his slaves.

God chastised the evil shepherds of Israel in Ezekiel 34:1, 8, saying,

    "Woe to the shepherds of Israel who only take care of themselves! Should not shepherds take care of the flock? You eat the curds, clothe yourselves with the wool and slaughter the choice animals, but you do not take care of the flock. ... my shepherds did not search for my flock but cared for themselves rather than for my flock."

    However, Jesus' leadership is quite different. The beautiful illustration of the Good Shepherd in John 10 reveals Jesus' leadership qualities as He works with His sheep. He provides for them, protects them and leads them out into green pastures and still waters. This is the kind of leader you and I want to strive to become.

  1. It takes a "team."

    In parenting, it takes a "team." Gil and I work together to take care of our son. He mentioned recently how much we feel like a "team," particularly as we care for our son. God is a relational God, too, working in tandem with Jesus and the Holy Spirit to carry out His will in our lives and in the world.

    Likewise in leadership, it takes a "team." It's easy to fall into the pattern of being "lone rangers" as leaders and doing everything ourselves. It can be faster, yet it doesn't allow for the use of everyone's gifts and in the end, we don't accomplish as much.

    Ecc. 4:9-10 tells us: " Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their work: If one falls down, his friend can help him up. But pity the man who falls and has no one to help him up! Make sure you have people around who can "help you up!"

    Perhaps you've felt as you read this article that you're already a servant leader and content with the quality of your leadership. But for those who do want to continue to enhance their leadership and their lives, let's review the keys to victory as we seek to grow as servant leaders in every realm of our life.

Keys to Victory along the Journey

  • Remember it is our "presence" that is most important for those we lead, especially in times of distress. And our presence needs to reassuring, not punitive, to those we lead.

  • As servant leaders, we're to be focused on providing for the needs of those entrusted to us and on their best. Only the Lord can give us wisdom as to how best to do this.

  • Remember it takes a "team." Build a team of like-minded leaders around you who share a common philosophy of leadership and ministry. With them and you, God will be able to accomplish great things!

Streams in the Desert I, another of my favorite devotionals, has a wonderful devotional from Feb 8 about the constancy of God's presence and His everlasting care in our lives.

"Lo, I am with you all the appointed days (Matt. 28:20)

Do not look forward to the changes and chances of this life in fear. Rather look at them with full hope that, as they arise, God, who you are, will deliver you out of them He has kept you hitherto; do you but hold fast to His dear hand, and He will lead you safely through all things; and when you cannot stand, He will bear you in His arms.

Do not look forward to what may happen tomorrow. The same everlasting Father who cares for you today will take care of you tomorrow, and every day. Either He will shield you from suffering, or He will give you unfailing strength to bear it. Be at peace, then, put aside all anxious thoughts and imaginations.

(Frances de Sales)

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Many prayers and blessings to you all,



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During the last 20 years as Suzanne served in the marketplace and in ministry, she learned to excel amidst the pressing demands and challenges of leadership in each setting.

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