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Feature Article: How to Run the Race of Life to Win

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How to Run the Race of Life to Win

As I talked with friends and looked at my own life recently, it seemed that everyone was so busy with their lives. None could believe how fast the summer, or even the year, had flown by. Our son, Carter, is about to turn 1 year old, and it seems amazing to me - it seems he was just born.

As I contemplated the speed of our lives, it seemed important to address the keys to leading a life that you want and running your race of life to win, rather than just watching it speed by you. Here are just a few inspirational thoughts for you that have been helpful to me over the years:

  1. Setting realistic expectations and being gentle and patient with yourself as you strive to reach your goals

    Many of you, and I'd include myself in this group, are high-achievers - those who have set goals for yourselves, whether those be in taking care of your family a certain way, educational goals, vocational and career goals, or relationship goals. It's easy when you're a goal-oriented person to begin to let the "tail wag the dog" and become driven by your goals and your plans.

    Over the years, I've pursued educational goals as a furtherance of my capacity to minister to people, and because it's a high value to me. Yet at some points in my life, I was working two jobs, going to school, and also trying to take care of those around me who were important in my life. Clearly, I survived it all, but those seasons were ones in which I was working so hard to reach my goals and doing so, yet not being as gentle and patient with myself as I could have been. Over time, if you keep up this pace, you become worn down and exhausted, not taking care of the "temple of God" that you are.

    My best friend would often say to me during these times, when I would feel stress at all I'd taken on, "Why should you or anyone be able to accomplish all of that?" She didn't say this to express a lack of confidence in my abilities, as much as to say, "Suzanne, you're expecting an awful lot of yourself, and it would be okay to throttle back a little bit, and give yourself a break." It's important for you and me to recognize this and to pace ourselves accordingly, to ensure that you'll be winning the race of your life.
  1. Stay connected to Jesus, and operate in the power of God's Spirit, not our own strength

    Jesus reminded us in the beautiful passage of John 15 that He is the vine and we, as God's children, are the branches. As the branches would die and be fruitless without the sustenance of the vine, so you and I will be able to accomplish little of spiritual value when disconnected from our "vine." In the previous chapter, John 14, Jesus introduces the Holy Spirit, as the One who would help us and comfort first the disciples, and later us, after Jesus' physical departure and ascension to heaven. Like the disciples needed the Holy Spirit to help them take Jesus' message into the world, you and I need the power of the Holy Spirit to enable us to fulfill God's special purposes for us. Relying on the Spirit's strength and grace will take you and me through the most challenging of times and circumstances.
  1. Trust God with your life's circumstances completely, especially being sensitive to when your plans and goals are not in alignment with the Lord's will for you.

    I've always been fascinated with the passage in Acts 16:6-7. It goes like this from the NIV: "Paul and his companions traveled throughout the region of Phrygia and Galatia, having been kept by the Holy Spirit from preaching the word in the province of Asia. When they came to the border of Mysia, they tried to enter Bithynia, but the Spirit of Jesus would not allow them to." It's even stronger in another version: "They were forbidden of the Holy Ghost to preach the word in Asia."

    You see in this situation that Paul and Barnabas wanted with all of their hearts to do God's work and to preach the gospel in these particular regions. Yet Scripture is clear in telling us that the Holy Spirit forbade them to do so. You may wonder why....

    Mrs. Charles Cowman in her January 10 devotional, Streams in the Desert, Volume 1, quotes the following from an author about this passage:

    It is interesting to study the methods of His guidance as it was extended toward these early heralds of the cross. It consisted largely of prohibitions, when they attempted to take another course than the right. When they would turn to the left, to Asia, He stayed them. When they sought to turn to the right, to Bithynia, again He stayed them. In after years Paul would do some of the greatest work of his life in that very region; but just now the door was closed against him by the Holy Spirit. The time was not yet ripe for the attack on these apparently impregnable bastions of the kingdom of Satan. Apollos must come there for pioneer work. Paul and Barnabas are needed yet more urgently elsewhere, and must receive further training before undertaking this responsible task.

    Beloved, whenever you are doubtful as to your course, submit your judgment absolutely to the Spirit of God, and ask Him to shut against you every door but the right one... (From Paul by Meyer).

    The September 24 entry adds the following in explanation:

    But I came to remember that the Spirit has not only a service of work, but a service of waiting. I came to see that in the kingdom of Christ there are not only times for action, but times in which to forbear acting. I came to learn that the desert place apart is often the most useful spot in the varied life of man - more rich in harvest than the seasons in which the corn and wine abounded. I have been taught to thank the blessed Spirit that many a darling Bithynia had to be left unvisited by me...

    ...Teach me to see another door in the very inaction of the hour. Help me to find in the very prohibition thus to serve Thee, a new opening into Thy service. Inspire me with the knowledge that a man may at times be called to do his duty by doing nothing, to work by keeping still, to serve by waiting. When I remember the power of the "still small voice," I shall not murmur that sometimes the Spirit suffers me not to go.

    George Matheson

Keys to Victory along the Journey

  • Setting realistic expectations and being gentle and patient with yourself as you strive to reach your goals

  • Stay connected to Jesus, and operate in the power of God's Spirit, not our own strength

  • Trust God with your life's circumstances completely, especially being sensitive to when your plans and goals are not in alignment with the Lord's will for you, and the Lord leads you a different route.

If you would like to hear more topics like these, please join us for the September "Inspirational Women's Garden Club" event on Wednesday, September 24, at 7 p.m. EST. For more information, contact Suzanne at suzanne@suzannemartinez.com. We'd love to have you join us and bring a friend, too!


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With enrollment this month in the Inspirational Women's Garden Club, you’ll receive a complimentary 30-minute personal or church coaching consult. Just contact my office at suzanne@suzannemartinez.com. I'd love to help you.

Please let me know what issues you would like to hear about in the next newsletter. I'll do my best to address your concerns! I look forward to speaking with you all next month.

Many prayers and blessings to you all,



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How to Run the Race of Life to Win

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During the last 20 years as Suzanne served in the marketplace and in ministry, she learned to excel amidst the pressing demands and challenges of leadership in each setting.

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